Often, when I introduce myself to someone I give them my name and then say, “I’m the only Nord you have ever met.” I sometimes add, “You probably haven’t met many Zootmans either.” That usually produces a smile and an agreement from the other person. My name is certainly unique, but so am I! You are unique as well. It doesn’t matter if there were two other people in your class with the same name or if you, like me, have never met another person with the same name. There is no one like you!
In Psalm 139 David describes how God has formed him and knows him: “To the choirmaster. A Psalm of David. O LORD, you have searched me and known me! 2 You know when I sit down and when I rise up; you discern my thoughts from afar. 3 You search out my path and my lying down and are acquainted with all my ways. 4 Even before a word is on my tongue, behold, O LORD, you know it altogether.” (Ps. 139:1-4 ESV). Scripture is replete with references to the reality that God knows our inner thoughts (Psalm 44:21; 94:11; Proverbs 5:21; John 2:24-25). That truth is sobering because we can’t hide anything from him and is encouraging because he truly understands us.
It is interesting that at the end of Psalm 139 David asked God to search him to know his heart and to know his thoughts. From what he wrote earlier David obviously knows that God already knows him, but this request I think implicitly includes the idea that David wants God to reveal to David the things that are in his heart. One of our tasks if we want to live well for the Lord is to understand our own heart. We also are given the task of communicating God’s truth to others and the better we understand them the better we will fulfill that task. I still remember the words of one of my professors 45 years ago when he said that understanding our message is only half of the preparation to teach, the other half is we need to understand our audience. Understanding people (ourselves and others) is essential to living well.
There are many things that make us unique as individuals. We are each “hard-wired” a little different from each other. It can be fun to take a simple personality test and compare the results with other family members or friends. One online test that is free can be found at 16personalities.com. Spend some time there learning about yourself and each other. We are not only born with different personalities, we have been born into different families, cultures, and subcultures. Different economic and social status has molded and shaped us as well as such obvious things as race and geographic location. Even within a family we all showed up at different times (unless we have a twin). Dr. Kevin Lehman has written extensively about how birth order shapes us as individuals as well.
While we are all very different from each other, we are also each created in the image of God. The fall of mankind described in Genesis three has marred that, but it still exists. Since God is infinite, it is not surprising that his image would be expressed in many different ways. We know of God through the perfect revelation of his word and his son, but we also gain insight as we see him in his creation – human beings! It is a great and worthwhile quest to know ourselves and to know others even as we, most of all, desire to know God!